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Breakups are never easy. Especially if the person you broke up with was someone that was your kink partner.

In the previous blog entry, I mentioned how my wife proposed to my buddy, who she was cucking me with, to become her second slave. He would be her sex slave, being allowed to have sex with her when she demanded, and I was to remain her pussy slave, licking her but never actually going inside her.

No Nut November was no surprise for me this year. Since I’m in chastity, it’s not like I’ve really got a choice. And my wife made it clear that licking her is a privilege, although she has been frequenting my buddy’s cock more than my tongue recently.

Well this month, they unfortunately broke up. As mentioned in the last entry, my wife is always the one in charge, unless it’s a one night stand. And with my buddy, well, he didn’t like this month’s request.

My wife went to meet him and have sex as usual, but she told him he wasn’t allowed to cum this month. I was excited for it. Almost like a revenge for him sleeping with my wife. Finally, he could feel my pain, even though he got to be inside her. He agreed to it, and then proceeded to cum inside my wife….

My wife was obviously upset, and his remarks didn’t help his situation either. After some back and forth on text messages, she called it off. I think the awkward situation called for it. This is unfortunately the reality of relationships most of the time. Everything can go well until it doesn’t.

She felt quite bad. After all, they were sexual partners for a while. I cheered her up, listened to her. We made out, but I stayed committed to my role and didn’t break chastity. She felt bad for me, but we talked it out. I didn’t want a bad experience with someone else to break our kink, and it seemed like I said the quite part out loud because I felt a sight of relief from her, as if she was making sure I was also ok.

As partners, we love and support each other, and it’s important to note that we are both just as much involved in this kink and are both willing to participate in it.

So what was next? I hoped that now I’d get more time to lick her pussy. I really did. But I didn’t say it. As a sub, I wanted to hear her say what she wanted. A dating profile was her idea. Ok… Part of me felt really jealous. I was a virgin and only had her. I knew she had plenty of one nighters before me, but I didn’t expect her to go back to it, especially since I can’t even get near her. Part of me just wished that she’d suddenly gain interest in my cock, but her love towards me felt more than enough.

I agreed, and said let’s see where this goes. She was waiting for my answer. She had to make sure it was ok. During that week, she went on 3 dates and slept with one. She told me it felt really refreshing to release herself, but wasn’t feeling it like in the past. The spark that she once had for one night stands was gone, even though the physical desire was there. Still, the photos she sent me from that one date made me really envious.

I asked her if perhaps we should try getting physical again, but she said it was time to take a break from the physical aspect of our relationship and focus more on the emotional connection. I was fine with that. She has been going through a lot of physical experiences recently, and I understood her desire for a break. Our love means a lot to each other, and even without the sexual stuff we function really well as a couple.

A domme/sub aspect I thought we should explore more during this phase is Findom (Financial Domination). Since that kink doesn’t really require sex, pussy licking, or even chastity play, I thought it was a good kink to continue our journey. She agreed!

I anyways hand my wife money on a monthly basis, so I thought instead of just giving her money, we could make a play of it. Perhaps a reward like chastity release, or perhaps humiliating me and making her kiss her feel as a reward. A lot of possibilities that we are both looking forward to explore and share with you later!

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