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Sharing her with my buddyIt’s been a while since I last wrote an update in my and my wife’s journey.
Last summer, my wife handed my keys over to our new keyholder. We both thought I would get a release for Christmas, however that was not the case. I managed to survive my urges until a few months into this year, when I gave in and started cumming though anal stimulation. I did this behind my wife's back but I let her know about it eventually. She didn't mind and understood my needs.
On my wife's side, she started getting more and more comfortable with my buddy, as detailed in her blog post. They didn't have sex, but she blew him on a few occasions, and video called me once when doing it. It was very hot and we both enjoyed the cuck play, but she never took it further. I guess she was just waiting for me to ask for it. There is no romance going on between them, more of a friends with benefits / kinkplay partner.
As for me and my wife, we still have plenty of "sex" together, just not involving my penis. It's mainly tongue, fingers, etc. Since I was locked for so long, my wife got used to ignoring me down there. Sure, she would touch it and play with it, but once she had an orgasm and her playing mood was over, our sexual encounter was considered done. We would both pull our pants up and go on about our day. She didn't think or try to further play with me through anal stimulation, as that's something I discovered recently on my own.
Since I can now cum on my own and she does not mind it, she did request to have the keys to my cage back, and the 3rd party keyholder phase was over again. Now I have the keys to my chastity and so does she. The way we did it is she keeps one key and the other key is in the bathroom. Every day, I can go in the bathroom to unlock myself to shower, clean, pleasure myself, anything I want really, but only in the bathroom and alone.
Why? Because now my wife likes the aesthetic of me being locked away rather than forcefully being locked away. The simple explanation is this: Before it was just me and my wife. We were always together and so holding the power to my orgasm was what was driving the power dynamic in our sexual relationship. If I were free to orgasm, it would mean that she held no power. Nowadays, that power dynamic has shifted more to "who has access to her body" and me presenting myself as a locked cuckold in her presence, unless she so deems to unlock me from chastity.
She just got so used to always see a metal cage around my penis, that she said she wanted it to remain that way. Similar to a partner having a tattoo. You are always used to seeing that tattoo so it would be weird if it just vanished one day. She loves the idea that me being locked and denied (outside the bathroom) is just my natural state of existence. Of course she understands that I have my needs as well, so that's primarily why I am allowed to be unlocked in the bathroom when I am alone.
Our sexual encounters remain the same. I am locked away and please her. But since she now holds the keys, at the end of our encounter she unlocks me if she feels like it and allows me to jerk off to her pussy. Otherwise I can just go in the bathroom myself and release there, but in any case, I am still locked back afterwards.
We recently did have piv sex however, and it felt great. It felt great for both of us as she was also deprived of it for so long. It happened soon after she got the keys back. I really wanted to have sex with her, but knew she would not bite unless I suggested something fun. I asked her if she wanted to take the whole cuckold journey a step further since she was already very familiar with my buddy and she was intrigued. Since she didn't have sex for so long, she would probably be super tight down there. Now wouldn't it be interesting for my buddy to claim her and make her large again, and then I could come afterwards and get the sloppy seconds.
She loved the idea but was sort of shy to do it, and so was I. It was a new step for us. When we felt ready, she went to my buddy's place for lunch time and stayed over the afternoon. She came back in the evening and we had the hottest sex so far. She felt so good and we were both enjoying it so much. I've never felt that way before. Afterwards we sat down and talked about it and how we would move onwards. We agreed that she and my buddy can have sex whenever they want to, but so far, she didn't return to him for sex or to blow him.
We also didn't have piv sex since then, but I did plenty of licking in the meantime. My hand still remains my number one partner down there, and I'll see how long until my wife's sexual urges really kick in again and she visits my buddy for another round :)