Hello and welcome to my blog! I'm Mia, and this is my journey as a dominant Asian wife.

When I met my husband in mid 2020, I was in my late 20s and he was still in his early 20s. My partying phase was over and my husband's never started. Yes, as humiliating as this is (for him), he was a virgin when we met. His self confidence was low and my sexy body (and body count 😂) did not make it much easier for him.

Still, I wanted something serious. So why my husband? Well at first I wasn't sure. I told him that I would be talking to other men too. But after 4 months, he was the only one I was engaging with. I felt I wanted something different, and compared to all the other men, he was showing me a lot of attention and care.

Up to that point, we haven't even kissed. It was nearing December and he finally built up the courage to ask me out on a Christmas and New Year trip. It was a 6 day trip. I knew at the time he was struggling to find a full time job and worked as an intern, so it really amazed me that he would dig into his savings to take me out on that trip. It made me feel so appreciated.

We went on the trip, and all I was thinking was "should I let him sleep with me or not?" I mean, I hooked up with other men before, but I was done fooling around. I wanted to make sure this one was serious. I caved in on New Year's Eve. He took care of me so well, but when we got back to the room and wanted to do it, surprise, he wouldn't get hard.

I tried my best not to laugh. This was even harder to process for him, as next morning we would be returning home. Well, he didn't make it. Virginity kept!

As we continued dating throughout 2021, we became closer and closer. Sex became a daily occurrence, with him coming over to my place as he was still living with his parents. Eventually, he found a full time job and we moved in together. Things were moving rapidly and in November 2021, we officially got married!

Throughout our sexual journey, we deviated more and more from just having regular sex, to more foreplay and pleasing me. He would eat me and ensure I felt pleasure before he did. His pleasure would come from pleasing me.

In November 2021, he introduced me to the chastity cage. I loved his idea. We started training together, with him being locked and denied for longer periods and me getting more attention and pleasure. In Decemeber, he organized a Christmas trip again and we left the keys home! It was really relaxing knowing I could get all the love I needed without worrying about his needs. Look, I even wore these sexy outfits to express my gratitude to him!

In May 2022, I got pregnant. That week, I let him have sex with me multiple times a day. He really wasn't used to having sex that much but he loved it. I hope he enjoyed it while it lasted, cause after that week, it was over for him.

I started to not have any engaging sexual encounters with him. I would sometimes let him inside me but turn around and see my phone. I would let him eat me and then ignore his needs afterwards. By the end of June, I stopped allowing him to eat me, and by mid July, sex ceased for him entirely.

We ordered a new metal cage for long term wear and I locked him in July. There was no planned release date this time and he knew it!

That's when my husband started documenting our journey. I found it hot how others complimented my looks and I obliged when my husband asked if I wanted to send pictures over. I felt like my partying phase has been reignited.

Soon enough, my female friend was the one holding the keys to my husband's freedom. All that sexual tension at home meant that the keys couldn't be around if I was really committed to keep him chaste.

As the months passed, he would beg me for a release, but I would just tell him that it was his idea. I saw that he enjoyed it too. I would sometimes make him sleep in a separate room and leave the door open as I would pleasure myself. I knew it frustrated him even more!

After 3 months of being locked away, he introduced me to his friend. His friend knew about our situation, and he agreed to help us explore the cuckolding kink which we both took interest in but were afraid to try.

I spent the night over at his friend's place and I didn't do much other than showering, calling my husband, and making out with his friend. I wasn't ready to have sex whilst being pregnant and I didn't know his friend well enough. But it felt really hot when we made out.

Despite my husband's blog never mentioning his friend again, his friend is still involved today in our sex life. I never had sex with his friend, but I did do other things to him. Sorry baby. Even if you don't want to admit it, the world has to know that you are a cuck.

My pregnancy phase was over prematurely in mid November 2022, and by late December, my body had recovered enough to resume my sexual journey again. After over 150 days in chastity, his keys were returned to me. I let him have sex with me a few times throughout the Christmas and New Year period.

His orgasms increased as I would unlock him from time to time, but we didn't have sex as often. I lost the feel of having him inside me. I loved when he ate me and I would frequently assert dominance over his orgasms, forcing him to jerk off to my body from a distance or using my hand to ruin his orgasm.

When I would let him inside me, I would make him to use a condom and put a 2 minute timer to force him to finish fast or get no release at all. It worked well.

Eventually, another one of my friends became his keyholder. This happened at the start of June 2023, and she has been in charge of him since. I still get plenty of oral pleasure from my husband, but him sticking it in me is now a thing of the past.

He gets to enjoy the company of my friend from time to time (physically non-sexual) and I get to enjoy the company of his friend from time to time (kind of sexual 😅)

But I still feel for him sexually! I was really down to do it with him this Christmas (December 2023), but his keyholder had other plans for him. I even wore a sexy outfit for the occasion! I didn't mind too much as his tongue felt great as always, but I felt I wanted more.

Now (2024) he started to learn to orgasm whilst locked. He is maintaining a good hygiene down there so the question is, does he really need to be unlocked anymore? Well, that is for his keyholder to decide.

Aside from all the sexual dominance, I love my husband very much. Outside of the bedroom we are a completely normal couple and family, and support each other in our every day life.

If you are interested to know more about our journey, read the detailed blog entries my husband posted on this page of our website.